Saturday, June 30, 2007
Show the Goodness
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Don't Shoot Darts
Have you ever been sitting in the dining room on lunch break or at McDonald’s having a bite to eat when someone at the next table begins loudly tearing down their spouse to someone else (and their spouse isn’t even there to defend herself or himself)? Oh, this is why I don’t like to eat in noisy restaurants (I’d rather eat in my car any day of the week). Dear wives, don’t ever say bad things about your husbands to other people. If you have a complaint, please discuss it with him. 1 Thessalonians 5:11 tells us that we are to “encourage one another and build each other up.” Dear wives, set a good example for the institution of marriage by not saying bad things about your husbands to other people. No matter how tempted you are to say bad things about him, remember that it is exactly what Satan wants you to do. Darts shot out in aggravation or anger will find their way to his ears, and hurt, confusion and anger will be the result. When I worked in fast food restaurants years ago and someone made me angry, I’d go into the freezer and pound on the frozen fries bags to make myself feel better. When I worked in convenient stores and had to load up the coolers with milk, etc, I’d sing at the top of my lungs. Now that I’m doing my best to walk the Christian walk and stay on the right path, I take walks when I get angry (or say “Doggone it!” over and over). Ladies, let’s all find quiet, alone ways to relieve our frustration and anger. Let’s not set bad examples or cause others to become angry, thus causing others to sin, too. Let’s stick our heads in the refrigerators and sing, sing, sing! Have a blessed day!
Look! Up in the Sky! It's a Bird! It's a Plane! It's....it's....it's...
Ever since we were little girls, we’ve read stories about Prince Charming and knights in shining armor riding up to rescue us. Some of us even still catch our breaths at the thought of Batman coming to our rescue or Superman swooping down to grab us into his strong arms and flying away with us. Ladies, we need to plant our feet firmly on the soil beneath our feet and toss our Bat-a-Rangs to the wind. We can’t put super hero expectations on the men in our lives, whether they be husbands, boyfriends, co-workers or the trash collectors. God didn’t create men to wear capes and fly about in the sky without the aid of engines or propellers. If He had, you would be married to Big Bird. Men have a difficult time living up to our expectations, and we need to let them now that we don’t expect a fancy air show or royalty on white horses. They need to know that we expect them to be the men God wants them to be---and they can read about that man in the Bible. Up, up and awaaaay!
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
You Don't Have To Be a Baywatch Babe
Have you ever heard that Joe Cocker song that goes “You are so beautiful to me”? Well, that’s what God thinks of us. Society dictates that beautiful women are the ones running down the beach in slow motion in a tight red swimsuit, or slithering down the catwalk in skimpy lingerie, but that’s not what God is looking for. God looks at the heart, and so should God’s people. The Lord told Samuel, “The Lord does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.” (1 Samuel 16:7 NIV). Is your heart beautiful? Do your search your heart daily to see how much beauty resides there? Leave behind everything that makes your heart dirty and ugly, then give your heart to God. You are beautiful to Him, because He made you, and He wants your heart to be beautiful, too.
Monday, June 25, 2007
A Vessel Scarred and Cracked
Restoration
Has there ever been a time when you felt your life needed complete restoration? Has it ever felt like the walls have been broken down and your gates burned? Have you ever felt like Jerusalem after the siege when Nehemiah’s job was to rebuild the walls? Chapter 4, verses 10 thru 11 tells us: “Meanwhile, the people in Judah said, ‘The strength of the laborers is giving out, and there is so much rubble that we cannot rebuild the wall.’ Also our enemies said, ‘Before they know it or see us, we will be right there among them and will kill them and put an end to the work.’” Is that how you feel, like your strength is gone, your life is filled with so much rubble that there can be no possible way that your life can be restored? And then there are your enemies, everyone who is pointing fingers at you and gossiping about you and wondering where you went wrong. You feel like no matter what you do to restore your life, those people are going to cause the wall to topple over each day. Take heart, dear one! Just as Nehemiah was able to rebuild the wall of Jerusalem , you can rebuild and restore your life! It hurts, I know, and it may take awhile for restoration to happen, but it will happen. Turn your life over to God. He’s the One who can rebuild your life stone by stone and gate by gate. Take every little thing to Him, because he doesn’t consider anything in your life to be little. He cherishes you, and He cherishes your life. Allow Him to destroy the person you were along with the rubble that lines the lanes of your life, and you’ll one day notice that you’re not the person you used to be. You will notice that you are not a child of the world, but a child of God who is joyfully dancing on walls of your life that stand firm and sure. Don’t allow this world to make you feel like you are less than what you are. You are loved by the Lord! He will restore you and your life, hallelujah!

